What an epic year... over the last10 months, I traveled in 20 something countries on four continents, surfed in three oceans, explored two major mountain ranges, and lived in deserts, trekked on glaciers, rafted on rivers, and saw pretty much everything in between. I felt more lonely and homesick than I imagined possible at times in South America and India, and then experienced unbelievable levels of euphoria, like when I was allowed into Syria and when I surfed Impossibles for the first time. I made new friends in most of the countries I visited and caught up with old friends in Spain and Bulgaria; I maintained my belief that the Pacific Northwest is the most beautiful area in the world but found numerous places that contend for a close second. I experienced the famous nightlife of cities like Buenos Aires and Beirut, and celebrated Christmas in Patagonia, Carneval in Cadiz, Saint Patrick's Day in Ireland, and Orthodox Easter in Bulgaria. Here are a few more statistics and superlatives:
- general favorite countries - Argentina, Ireland, Syria, Lebanon, Thailand, Indonesia
- countries that I have yet to grow a thorough affinity for - India
- most commonly seen weapon - AK-47 (omnipresent in Uruguay, Lebanon, Kashmir)
- hours on buses - 300+
- longest bus ride - 21 hours from Montevideo, Uruguay to Florianopolis, Brazil after some idiot threw a rock and broke the window
- flights - 25
- countries visited with State Dept. travel warnings - 4 (Lebanon, Syria, Israel, Indonesia)
- most volatile area visited - southern Lebanon and Kashmir (tied)
- safest country visited - Chile (Ireland were it not for my Dad's driving)
- most listened to music on my iPod - Red Hot Chili Peppers
- best album for bus travel - Eric Clapton Unplugged
- most memorable meal - Filet Mignon with Casillero del Diablo Cabernet at an Argentine steakhouse in Quito, topped off with Dulce de Leche
- best wine - Malbec from Mendoza, Argentina, from a winery that I visited with five Irish guys
- est. average number beers/glasses of wine per day in Argentina - 4
- total number drinks in non-Turkey Middle East/India - 5
- average servings of beef/day in Argentina - 2
- number of beef items on the McDonalds menu in Delhi - 0
- best nightlife - Kuta, Beirut, Buenos Aires
- best waves - Impossibles, Bali
- most cherished item that was stolen - Chaco sandals
- favorite travelers - Irish
- new hobbies - skimboarding, sandboarding, motorcycles, sketching, writing, canyoneering
- friendliest/most hospitable people - Lebanese and Irish
- # of times I hope to ever drink Nescafe again - 0
- methods of transportation - walking, car, bus, motorcycle, ferry, river raft, bicycle
- nationalities that people have assumed I was - (after talking to me): American, Canadian, Irish, English, Aussie, Argentine.... (before talking to me): Uruguayan, Lebanese, Israeli, Egyptian (seriously!)
- worst hostel - Hostelling International, Madrid
- best hostel(s) - Oasis in Seville, Bauhaus in Istanbul
- hotel with most character - Talal's New Hotel in Beirut (anarchists, journalists, wanna-be journalists, and dudes who sit around smoking nargileh all day)
- best cities - Buenos Aires, Jerusalem, Dublin
- least favorite cities - Lima, Delhi
- most expensive accommodation - $120/night (houseboat in Kashmir)
- cheapest accommodation - $3/night (hostel in Arequipa, Peru)
- most expensive city - Dublin, Ireland
- cheapest city - Damascus, Syria
- best airport - Singapore (free internet!)
- worst airport - Alexandria (I seriously thought I had found a bomb sitting in the corner of the "terminal")
- least probable occurrences - running into Rula in a flamenco bar in Seville, getting a visa on the spot to visit Syria
- number of books read - ~25
- favorite books read - The Kite Runner, A Monk Swimming, Shantaram
- best ruins - Palmyra in Syria, Baalbek in Lebanon, Petra in Jordan
- best architectural sights - Temple Mount in Jerusalem, Taj Mahal, Aya Sofya and Blue Mosque in Istanbul
- best natural sights - mountains and valleys of Kashmir, Fitz Roy in Argentina, Sahara Desert in Morocco
- number of times I've been convinced that a country has the most beautiful girls and/or best food - 6 (locations will remain undisclosed)
- % of people I explain about the Bonderman Fellowship to - ~40%
- country with highest priority to quickly return to - Indonesia (next summer, inshallah!)
- speaking of inshallah, number of religions I learned more about - 5 (Hinduism, Buddhism, Christianity, Judaism, Islam)
- best homesickness remedies - best of craigslist, clean airports, changing countries, seeing my dad in Ireland and my family in Chile
It's pretty tedious to try to remember anywhere close to all of the things I've seen, particularly because this trip has been so segmented. My travels in South America felt like a completely different trip than my experience in Europe, which was in turn completely different than my journey through the Middle East. Indonesia didn't feel like a part of my "Bonderman" journey at all, but instead more like a vacation that I tacked onto the end of a completed eight month trip.
Sometimes I flip back a few months in my blog or on flickr, and I can't really fathom that I was actually, say, driving in a jeep in Kashmir next to the Pakistan border with a bunch of guys from Jammu who didn't really speak English. What really stuns me is the fact that I did everything I set out to do. It seems like that doesn't happen very often with big ambitions. Something always gets sold short, doesn't work out, or something else gets in the way, but here I am in Bangkok, about 10 months after leaving home, and I've visited Tierra del Fuego, Seville, Israel, and Kashmir (the places I originally proposed on my Bonderman application), spent almost two months surfing in Bali (a dream for me since I started surfing), and met a slew of incredibly interesting people from around the world who I hope to see again in the future. I guess throughout the trip I assumed there would be some disconnect, that something wouldn't work out, that I'd go home after eight months, change my plans dramatically, or whatever, but...no.
I hadn't thought about this until now, actually. I mean, it was so easy a year ago to be writing that I was going to be traveling to these places, seeing these things, but when the reality sunk in during those first weeks in Costa Rica of how lonely and strange extended independent travel actually was, I think I had some doubts about how far I would actually go. I remember reading something in a book called Haunted by Chuck Palahniuk when a guy traps these writers in his house after they had signed up for a "writer's retreat" there. They're complaining that they can't write in these conditions, and he replies, "what stops you here is what stops your entire life." I remember reading that (or listening to it, since it was on my iPod), and thinking how relevant it was. Things that could distract me and disrupt my ability to travel and enjoy the places I was so privileged to see were the same things that could throw off any of my life's ambitions and plans...I had to get the proverbial dirt off my shoulder (I wonder if Jay-Z and Chuck Palahniuk have ever been referenced in the same paragraph).
So, I did. I stopped getting mad because the water made me sick or because someone cheated me out of a peso or two, did things as I wanted to do them, and lost my hesitations of changing plans or making drastic decisions. I read at some point on the UW Honor Program's website that the Bonderman Fellowship was intended to "foster independence", and I was a bit surprised when I read that, because it wasn't one of the usual cliches that are attached to international travel. But it was true - independence had been fostered, and I lost the need to seek approval of what I was doing from anyone except myself. I wanted to go to Lebanon the night I flew into Amman, so I bought another flight and went. I wanted to properly see Kashmir, so I flew to Srinagar and went overland through the heart to Leh. I told the relevant people about these plans after I made them, probably occasionally to their consternation, but I lost the feeling like I needed to ask permission or gain anyone's approval except my own.
Similarly, I felt like when I started my trip that as a Bonderman Fellow, there were certain things I should and shouldn't do. I shouldn't travel in western Europe, spend too much time surfing, or have an overly active social life. When I headed to a beach to surf or went out for a night with people from my hostel, I felt somewhat guilty, like I should be on some dusty 30 hour bus ride in central Africa or talking to some village chief in Borneo. And this is probably true to a large extent - there are definitely more meaningful things to do in one's travels than drink vodka Red Bull with backpackers in a club in Rio, but then again, some of my most vivid and best memories of this trip are from the people my own age, both locals and travelers, who I wouldn't have met if I was sleeping in some obscure suburb in an effort to unearth some deep crevice of "culture."
The last segment of my trip in Bali was simply two of the best months of my life and basically consisted of surfing all day and going out all night, and I don't have a single regret about deciding to spend so much time there. Sure, I could have spent the time traveling through more of southeast Asia and checking out the temples of Angkor Wat, the islands of Halong Bay, and the culture of Changmai, and those things would have been great, but I think they would have been just photographs, whereas I know I'll never forget the people I met and the waves I surfed in Bali. I don't want to be too serious, though. It's hard to go wrong with 20 grand to spend and a whole world to explore.
Anyway, I thought this last post before flying home would just be numbers, but I started writing and suddenly there's several paragraphs above me. It's 10:20pm on the 26th here. I have to be at the airport in 5.5 hours. I am deliberating staying up until my flight leaves so I can sleep all "night" (my day, Seattle's night), but after 10 months of safe travel, I don't want to tempt the travel gods into making me sleep through my flight.
In less than 30 hours I'll be able to say that I traveled around the world!